I like to make guys I date wait until I fuck them. One way I’ve teased some is by giving them a lap dance before I will fuck them. I see most men I fuck at least ten times before I engage in intercourse. Many think a lap dance is a bit of a mean way to tease them. They are so close, yet so far, but some have absolutely cum from me doing that to them. I danced for a while in college to earn tuition money, so I know what I’m doing. I’ve not told any of the men I’ve dated about the dancing, since they would assume a dancer is also a slut, but I’m not. I wouldn’t make them wait so long if I was some slut.
They just think I’m good at what I do, and I am. I know how to grind on a guy until he’s ready to pop in his shorts. I want to keep them coming back for more, so I find a slow tease is the way to keep them interested. I’d been on a few dates with this current man and told him I’m not easy, and he said that was fine. You’d be surprised how many men when if asked, will absolutely say a woman is a slut in their eyes if they put out too soon, and no one they would consider for a serious relationship. They are happy to play with a good time gal, but will they consider marrying her? Nope.
Giving things away too soon or too easily, no matter how much you might also want to fuck the guy will usually be regrettable. So hold out. A lap dance will tease them and intrigue them. There’s nothing wrong with teasing, as long as you are upfront about it that things will not go any further at this point. It gives them something to look forward to. They will go home and think of you and jerk off fantasizing they get to finally fuck you if they hold out for the prize.