Backdoor Lovin’

Over 25% of heterosexual couples have tried anal sex, it’s a turn on for many people. It can make you avoid pregnancy yes, yet it carries with it the highest chance of disease of any sexual activity since the tissues and membranes are very thin and fragile and susceptible to tearing and injury. Lubrication is also non existent and much is needed to be applied. Many men prefer it since it is much tighter than the vagina, yet it is painful for many.

Laws and religions have long gone after and tried to prosecute sodomite’s. It seems crazy to try and prosecute what grown people do in their bedrooms consensually, yet religions love to have total control over ones thoughts and actions and create guilt where there should be none, seems it’s their job to make others feel bad about themselves and feel like shamed children. Pretty pitiful ones buy into such fairy tales and tripe.

If ones want to try it, as long as both disease free, go right ahead. It’s not for everyone, and even when ones use condoms, since it is so tight, they can sometimes break or slip off, but in the last 30 years more people have tried anal sex than ever before. Many say the prevalence of it in porn has caused it to be much more readily accepted and experimented with, regardless of its risks. If ones see something frequently, it makes it seem more normal and acceptable. It’s been around since the dawn of time and isn’t going anywhere. If you choose to indulge, please be careful and make sure your partner is disease free and use plenty of lube and go slowly at first.

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Big, Black Cock

A perversion to some is the whole big, black cock thing. I get so many callers that want to talk about it. Either getting it themselves or watching their women take it. I cannot even count how many in a week call and this is their topic of choice. And most of them obsessed with it have a small penis. They fixate on the black cock thing since they like the idea that most black cocks are a lot bigger than average and that they would put their tiny dicks to shame, which in most cases they likely would.

One guy calls several times a week with outlandish tales of his wife with her handful of black lovers that come over and fuck right in front of him, up to seven at a time and she fucks and sucks them all right there in front of him as he jerks his little cock off. I’m sure he knows these tales are a bit out there and that I don’t buy into any of it, yet he likes to entertain himself and he concocts all these crazy scenarios he envisions as he masturbates and talks to me.

If it makes him happy, who am I to challenge him and call him a liar? That’s not my job, fleshing out his fantasy, wild and improbable though it might be, is what I am there for. So I act as though every single thing he tells me is real, and exclaim how shocking her continually slutty behavior is, even though she’s likely never even been on a date with a black man, let alone fucked seven in one afternoon in front of him as he strokes his inadequate little penis.

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Cumslut Adventures

Humiliating and degrading women is sadly something a lot of guys love to do. One that I talked to recently wanted to talk about a total cumslut, a woman that was going to be dropped off at a bachelor party and she was the entertainment for the lot of them. She was going to fuck and suck every guy there and be made into a cum guzzling whore that was loving every minute of it. The men were also going to write things on a tee shirt, how many times they came into her and how, pussy, mouth, ass, and then the next day after the bachelor party gang bang, she was going to have to wear the informative tee shirt out to a restaurant so everyone could see and read about what all she’d been up to the night before.

The humiliation of going out in public wearing such a tell all garment would be horrific to most, to him that was almost as much fun as the gang bang part of the fantasy. Knowing that everyone that saw her was going to judge her and feel disgust at her many slutty actions and that she had no pride to wear such a thing.

I’ve heard of the fetish where ones write on the woman’s body, but never heard of or thought of writing on an article of clothing for them to then be publicly shamed by. Much worse than the scarlet letter, apparently! I guess if a woman was open to being the center of such an evening’s entertainment, perhaps it wouldn’t be the great shame I imagine it would be, perhaps they really wouldn’t care.

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Why Say No?

I guess the pic should actually be the word orgasm with the red circle around it rather than sex. It amazes me some guys seem to have little contests with themselves to see how long they can go without cumming. I have heard this many times from guys of various ages. It’s like a battle of wills of sorts for them.

I actually have plans with one in a few days on his month anniversary since his last orgasm. I so don’t get it! Life is short, you only have so many opportunities for orgasms, for heaven’s sakes embrace them and cum as much as you can! I doubt you will be on your death bed regretting the orgasms you had, you will be regretting the ones you DIDN’T have! There was a movie a few years ago called “40 Days and 40 Nights” about a guy that abstains from all orgasms for 40 days and nights.

I don’t know if I could make it myself! A couple of years ago I went 24 days and it was hard, I was writhing in my chair with need of release, that’s no way to live. If you want to stay away from other people, that’s one thing, but no solo orgasms even? Dear God why???

Yes, to abstain for a week can really make you cum harder when you finally do allow yourself for sure, but beyond that, I really don’t get the point at all. Guess I’m too much of a hedonist.

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Porn Conventions

Some are very much obsessed with porn and the actresses who star in the pornos. Porn conventions are the fan driven gatherings where you can meet your favorite adult film stars. Some want nothing more than to gather with their “masturbation buddies” of sorts and meet and greet the ladies they have been jerking off to for years. They can get their pictures taken with the ladies of their dreams and get their autographs etc.

I have a few celebrity obsessed clients that have told me about these fan gatherings they have gone to. I well recall one man telling me how he got to have sex with a porn star of yesteryear at one of these conventions. I think his tale was more make believe than real, since I seriously doubt any porn star would be having sex with him, but he seemed to like to talk about it and it made him happy, so where’s the harm…

Others have been just happy to get a picture or two with the ladies they have been watching and jerking off to for years. They don’t have such conventions for big name movie stars, porn stars are somehow more reachable than an A lister that makes huge Hollywood blockbusters. They have shared an intimate part of themselves with the viewers in their movies, and now the fans can actually meet them and get an even more personal experience by meeting them. It’s kind of odd really, but if it makes everyone happy, why not.

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