Put That Thing Away!

Posted on August 13, 2012 by Sharon

So many guys love to show off their private parts to unsuspecting women. I can’t even tell you how many guys ask to show themselves on cam to me on a daily basis. Uh, no thanks, Bud. I’m not a visual person in the sense they so hope I will be. I have no desire to see some stranger yanking on their dick. I’m afraid it doesn’t do a thing for me, I’d rather watch the leaves on the trees blow.

Showing off their junk to strangers holds even more of an appeal it seems. I asked one of my chat guys if he’d ever flashed anyone and he said years ago he’d flashed a girl he liked but knew he had no chance with, then ran like Hell away! I laughed and wondered why anyone would do such a thing, knowing the person didn’t want us, what the purpose of such an action was. Not all flashers wish to masturbate in front of their victims, some just want to show.

It’s like you’re assaulting their mind, raping their eyes with an image they did not wish to see or have in their mind in the first place, and you’re doing it against their will. I’m not sure why guys so get off on flashing others and exposing themselves. You don’t see hordes of women pulling up their tops and exposing their breasts to random strangers, yet to some guys, it’s some ultimate act of control over what another person is seeing against their will.

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Mummification

Posted on August 6, 2012 by Sharon

When one mentions mummification, you’re likely to think of King Tut and Egypt. Well in the BDSM world mummification refers to ones into wrapping up their partner, as in with plastic wrap, or bandages. A type of sensory deprivation experience and also of total control by the partner.

Imagine being totally bound and helpless and being turned on and not being able to do anything about it! They wouldn’t need to tie you down, since you’d be already restrained and pretty well immobilized. Laid on a bed and a cock shoved right to your mouth, you can’t refuse it, your arms are strapped to your sides tightly, so you’d best give in.

It can also be referred to as bandage bondage. I had one odd caller a couple of years ago that used to talk about hanging me upside down and my head wrapped in bandages, which I found odd. Not being able to see or hear, and I’d bet not breathe either! I don’t get the appeal of such actions. I mean, I can understand the appeal of a blindfold or tying someone up to the bedposts to tease them, but not full on wrapping someone up. I’m wondering how if they are totally wrapped up, how do you get to their genitals? I recall a number of years ago a man died in some weird accident, he was obsessed with duct tape and wrapped himself up and his head too and suffocated, crazy bastards out there for sure!

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Pro Ana

Posted on July 30, 2012 by Sharon

There are some very sick fetishes and perversions out there, some I am shocked when I learn of them. If you don’t know what “pro ana” is, it means pro anorexia. There are some men that like thin women alright, as in so thin they look like they are dead already and would crush if they were fucked at all.

I was horrified at some of the pictures I saw of the anorexic porn out there, and it does exist. Ironic in a way, since in people with eating disorders or the ill and sick in general, one of the first things that goes away is your sex drive. If you have a terrible cold or are sick in some way, the last thing that enters your mind is masturbating or having an orgasm. Your body is reserving strength for recovering and getting well, and sexual gratification is the last thing most people would be thinking about if not feeling well.

How anyone could be attracted to someone that looks as though they are virtually dead, I cannot even fathom. The buxom, healthy look of someone built like Marilyn Monroe is the appealing figure, something to grab onto, a healthy looking Playboy model type, not some waif who has obvious mental disorders to have fallen into such a state in the first place.

My only thought is a man who would be attracted to such an image would be so insecure he can only be attracted to someone weak and frail with no strength left to challenge or question them, a total submissive without the strength to even think straight. Ironically, some men are attracted to very obese women for the same reason, knowing they often suffer from low self esteem and perhaps haven’t been able to get any other man, so they will be grateful for whatever crumbs of attention are tossed their way, even by some low life creep of a man with deep seeded control issues.

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Porn Is Good For Society

Posted on July 23, 2012 by Sharon

Porn is good for society. Now many might read that sentence and laugh, or shake their heads. But apparently it’s true. I just read in societies where there is the most porn and it’s the most accessible to all age groups, including kids, there is the least amount of sex crimes. It was also porn that was mainly responsible for the introduction of the home video market. People wanted to watch porn from the comfort of their own homes, not in seedy theaters in shady parts of town.

Japan is about the most porn friendly country going. Really weird and extreme stuff, too. Yet they have very low rates of all sex crimes. Even in countries were viewing and possessing porn is a crime, like some Muslim countries, hotels are exempt, due to the foreign businessmen that stay in hotels. There is a movement by some Christian groups to get hotels to stop offering porn in hotels rooms, but it is such a cash cow, hotels are not likely to do that anytime soon. As much as 70% of room service profits are from pay to view porn available on the room t.v.’s.

Porn is one industry that women far out earn the men. In most jobs, men out earn women, but in porn, it’s a woman’s world. While it is true many women get into the adult entertainment industry out of financial desperation, many find once they are there, that they can do surprisingly well and that it’s not the worst industry to work in. They can have freedom, creative license, power over men if they are into domination, it can be a satisfying industry to be in if you are one of smart ones and a player. One thing many do not expect is the humor in this industry. There is a lot of humor. Crazy stories. There can also be some sad stories, but for some women, it can be an empowering industry. We are often down paths we never thought we would be down, but once there, we realize we are on the right path for us.

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Human Toilet

Posted on July 16, 2012 by Sharon

This next perversion is one I cannot understand. I will write about things I will not talk about on calls, and this topic is one of them. Some guys are into the human toilet fantasy. Most want you to use them, not too many are the other way around. I “won’t go there”, but I know some are into this form of humiliation. I guess it is the ultimate humiliation. There are tons of websites for this, as there are for any sort of fetish, I didn’t dare click on them, as I didn’t want to put images into my mind I didn’t want there.

Many guys into this not only want to have women use them, but also other men. A few have told me they desired to have an entire party of people use them. I’d like to say I hope they keep it in fantasy rather than reality, but it boggles my mind why anyone would even fantasize about this sort of thing. Different things turn on different people for sure. One person I spoke with about such a fixation said they were likely deeply affected by something in early childhood that has carried over into adulthood from their anal stage of toilet training, so they should have outgrown such a phase, but for whatever reason they did not evolve in that area, so it lingers on.

One client says he wants to be chained to an actual toilet and have party guests going to the washroom discover him there and he tells them to use him instead. Used by men and women alike in the most degrading way possible. I cannot understand such a thing, but I guess it’s not my issue to ponder. I guess it’s not my place to disparage what consenting adults get involved in.

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