Chastity Devices For Men

 

There are many men that call me that are totally into wearing chastity devices. From days to months. The male chastity devices with padlocks and accessories are of great interest to men that are into tease and denial and some cuckold lovers as well.

They often will call me up and want them to tease them to get them hard, even though they cannot masturbate since their cock is under lock and key. Some even have these accessories to their cock cages, spikes, that if their cock starts to get erect while contained, the spikes will dig in and create pain. It’s bad enough they are denying themselves, but some want pain on top of that.

Some men kept in chastity by their wives or Mistresses are only let out on special occasions and are not allowed to be in possession of the keys, lest they be tempted to masturbate or heaven forbid be intimate with a woman.

A great many men could benefit from being kept in penile lockdown mode. Many men are basically controlled by their erotic desires. How many times have we heard how the little head is thinking rather than the big head? We all have. If one’s penis is kept under lock and key and orgasm is not an option, think how much better they would be having to rechannel that energy that goes into thinking about sex.

Chastity can be a whole new beginning. I doubt men sent to these sex addict clinics are being kept in chastity, yet it makes a lot of sense, even if only long enough to retrain their ways of thinking, but there’s always the danger of them slipping back into old ways of doing things.

Posted in chastity, restraints | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Bondage

It’s one thing to allow someone to tie you up and restrain you for a round of submissive sex, but this perversion here is downright disturbing to me. If some guy of mine came at me with rubber body bags or masks, I can tell you this, I would be out the door post haste. Not in a million years……

BDSM enthusiasts can be extreme. I have seen online they have sites where you can buy straight jackets and even ones with hoods! I would be horrified.

A caller of mine from England had some odd ideas a few times he called. He wanted to hang me upside down and wrap my head in bandages and fill my pussy with honey and jam. Now he also lived with his mother, was a 65 year old virgin and lived with dozens of ferrets if that gives you any explanation. That man was a character for sure.

Ones into bondage usually have a safe word, where if the one bound uses it, they are immediately released. Ones bound and tied are usually not to be left alone either. My fear would be what if you were tied up, and your partner suffered a heart attack or something and was unable to release you. What would you do then? If you were in a hotel, at worst you’d have to wait til morning when the maid arrived, if at home, well, who knows what might happen. Ones should always use caution in these matters and refrain from using drugs or alcohol during such playtime.

Posted in BDSM, restraints, sadism | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Dressed For Sex

Endytophilia means you like to have sex with your clothes on. I have spoken to many guys that had this attraction. I personally don’t understand it, if I am going to be having any orgasms, I am going to be nude, simple as that.

I started to hear from guys that were really into lingerie that wanted to have sex and just pull the woman’s panties to the side, fuck with the women wearing pantyhose, just tearing a hole in them and fucking them right through them.

One said he wouldn’t even sleep with a woman unless she was going to be sleeping wearing panties. Guess he wouldn’t like me, I only sleep nude, year round. I find underwear restrictive and never wear it at home, and these guys really like their women in lingerie and clothes.

Some have really liked telling me about how they really liked to be rubbed through their clothes to orgasm and really enjoyed doing the same to women, rubbing them through their panties and making them cum in them, making a wet spot on the panties. You’d think one would want a woman totally naked, nothing to hide all the “good stuff”, but there are ones that want it hidden, they feel it adds more mystery apparently….Crazy guys.  

Seems more like something that’s a hold over from their teen years, fooling around with clothes on so if someone came into the room quickly, they would still be dressed and not appearing to be too far advanced in what was going on if their clothes were still on.

Posted in clothes | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

You Put What Where?

There are many perversions to be sure, but some have a particular penchant for placing odd objects up their backsides.

One of the guys I chat with is an Atlanta ER Dr., and he has regaled me with tales of ones brought in after some sexual misadventure gone awry have forced them to seek medical attention for their stupidity. And believe me, when a case like that comes into the ER, the entire hospital knows about it within 5 minutes. Word spreads like wildfire when ones are brought in after doing these things.

He told me a man was brought in with a Barbie doll up his ass and another with-get this-a pine cone, yes, a pine cone. Of course they have to appear professional and not laugh at these patients.

The thing that made me think of this topic to cover was last night a caller told me had had an apple up his ass. I didn’t think I’d heard correctly, so I asked him to repeat it. Yes, I had heard correctly. My first thought was, what makes one wake up and have the thought, “Today I’m going to shove an apple up my ass”. I honestly cannot imagine.

If you look online you will see no shortage of ones that have tried everything from vegetables, toys, *gulp* small rodents, even live bullets, to cans of body spray. One of the funniest stories I came across was of a clergyman who needed to seek help after a potato up his ass required medical intervention. Not wanting to appear a pervert, he concocted an outlandish tale about hanging curtains in the nude and falling backwards on his kitchen table. Gotta give him an A+ for his creative story!

The embarrassment at having to seek help, the x-rays I saw with everything from pop bottles to toy cars that people had shoved up their ass, I am never ceasing to be amazed at peoples stupidity. The x-ray I saw of a vibrator that got pushed up way too far and the man sought to remove them himself with salad tongs, which then also got stuck. I was laughing at the lunacy of it all.

So the next time you decide to stick something up where the sun don’t shine, think about if you get carried away and can’t get it out and need medical help. Think of the embarrassment!

Posted in insertions | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Baby, You Can Drive My Car!

There are guys that love their cars, yes. Then there are ones that actually, well, umm, LOOOOVE their cars. And I’m not talking as in taking pride in. They actually have sex with their cars.

Mechaphilia is where ones literally have a physical relationship with their cars. The smell of the leather upholstery, the buttery softness of it, the smooth, cool glass and metal, enough to make your cock hard, ain’t it now……..

Well, at least they don’t have to worry about STD’s or getting stood up. The car is a sure thing, it won’t say no! EVER! Some people do have physical relationships with inanimate objects like furniture or in this case cars. Imagine having sex with your penis in an exhaust pipe and masturbating to car magazines. Oddly enough, there are actually ones that do just that.

They don’t have sexual feelings towards girls, they are quite wrapped up in their vehicles. Well, the car doesn’t ask you where you have been when you come home three hours late or if you’ve been applying for that higher paying job when you come home, either.

But by the same token as much as you may “love” your car, it really can’t love you back like a real person. Ones with this interest are often quite secretive about it and the one site I found online, (sexwithcars.org) I kid you not, won’t let people view the forums unless they are approved beforehand! So it’s not even just for cars, ones are fucking trucks and even small planes apparently. Lord, the things horny guys will get up to…..

Imagine a guy getting himself a racy sports car and fucking it in secret behind his wife’s back. Perfect mistress, no hotel bills, no jealousies, no having to buy them jewelry when they find out and you’re trying to apologize. Well, if I found out a boyfriend or husband was fucking a car, I’d kind of be gone anyway, I’d think they have a screw loose for sure. Another woman I wouldn’t be thrilled about for sure, but at least it’s a HUMAN BEING!!!!!!

Posted in inanimate objects | Tagged , | Leave a comment