The appeal of spanking in a consensual sexual relationship is there for many. BDSM can involve all sorts of different activities, spanking being one of the milder ones. Spanking is something many of us were exposed to as children, frequent or only very rarely, yet things we experienced in childhood we often wish to relive as adults on our own terms.
As children of course we didn’t want to be spanked to be punished. It was not only painful physically, but embarrassing, especially if it was done out in public if we acted up in a store or something. I think many men I talk to that are into spanking had incidents in their youth where they were caught masturbating by their mom and they were spanked as punishment. Decades later they are seeking to relive that humiliation. They know they cannot be spanked for discipline, yet they can get spanked in a sexual realm. Ones that were getting spanked as they approached puberty, may have even gotten physically aroused and gotten a hard on, and the seeds were planted for associating spanking with sexual desire.
There must have been a lot of guys getting spanked for punishments, since I get a lot of guys calling that want to talk about getting spanked. I’d be much more comfortable getting spanked than doing the spanking, yet calls are 95% guys that want to get spanked rather than do it to the woman when they are seeking a spanking call in my experience.
