Language for many men is an important component of phone sex. Not just that you talk explicitly, but use words that they wish to hear. Some are very specific about the words they need to hear. Some want cock, not dick, to some only the proper anatomical names will do. Only penis, never cock or dick. Some English callers only want willy used, it’s funny how particular they are. Some only want cunt, not pussy, and if you slip up they will correct you so the error is pointed out and it’s less likely to happen again.
The way things are said is important to someone’s state of arousal to most, yet I have read that it’s the tone of voice and its actual sound that is retained when ones look back on conversations. I have had men tell me they could get aroused listening to me read the phone book, and that’s the thing that is arousing to them, the voice, not what it’s saying. I do have some callers that actually ask for everyday chit chat rather than sexual conversation, they are just happy to hear a female voice talking to them, it’s not the words that are important.
Some are obsessed with words though, and want you to repeat the same word or phrase over and over again. I have heard other women mention this as well. Such as the man that wants to hear the word, “feet”, over and over again. Some words act as a key into their mind unlocking a particular part of their mind that gives them great pleasure. It’s unusual the different things that turn men on, so many quirky things they can be so specific about and nothing less will do.
