Drowning Fetish

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Now here is a perversion that seems to combine two different fetishes. I had not until recently heard of “drowning fetish”. Apparently ones who like sex underwater, not that odd, also are crossing their desire with auto erotic asphyxiation, air deprivation, and doing that together. Yeah, I can see some guy holding me down underwater for “just a bit longer” as I gagged on his cock! Um, NO!

The things out there, even dangerous things, life threatening things, that people find arousing are astounding. I mean the thrill of getting caught in a semi pubic place I can grasp, but literally jeopardizing your or your partners life? For an orgasm? Who knew drowning was sexy…A man was actually arrested by an undercover cop who was trying to convince her to drown her daughters in front of him since he found drowning sexy and wanted to see people actually die from it as he masturbated. I swear, it’s hard to believe there is such masochism out there.

Apparently there are a couple of movies out there with this mentioned in them, but I myself have not seen them. So obviously some people are into this if it’s mentioned in a few different movies. People are aroused by many odd things that seem in no way sexual to most of us. When ones want to murder others for sexual gratification, that’s a scary thought. Guys get horny everyday, you sure can’t be going around offing people for fun once a day or ever. Snuff films are for these sorts I guess, aroused by death and suffering.

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Spread ‘Em!

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Many men find the administration of enemas pleasurable. More men are into this sort of medical play than women, and it is usually because of the prostate glad that gives them pleasure, that is similar to a woman’s G spot. Many men are often getting erections in a medical environment as it is not uncommon when a nurse or doctor is touching someone fore them to get unexpectedly aroused. Not all enemas are in a medical environment though.

They have become much more popular in the BDSM communities, and some are even wanting them before and during sex, apparently the holding in of the enema liquid can make for more powerful orgasms and they release their enema as they cum. God knows where this is happening, hopefully not a bed! The front lawn with the garden hose, that seems a better idea, better to squirt your fertilizer on the lawn than the bed, ick. Ones often use them prior to any sort of anal play to make things as clean as possible. Ones into analingus especially like things as clean as possible for their tongue in ass explorations, if that’s what gets you going.

For some, anal stimulation is the ultimate in satisfaction, and the medical aspect enemas give to some that harbor naughty nurse or doctor fantasies is what pushes them over the edge to a very intense orgasm. I’m sure no matter what the medical procedure, someone, somewhere will be getting aroused to it.  Especially if it’s having to do with the genital areas.

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Cum Here

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I spoke to a guy this week, one of many actually, that was into swallowing his own cum. This is fairly popular among guys for some reason. I don’t think tons of girls are into licking their own fingers after they masturbate the same way guys like to cum in their own mouth, or lick it off of their hand. I will never forget the one that claimed his pre cum was like cotton candy, there’s a line you don’t hear everyday!

I will take his word for it. Some speak of the pre cum and cum that blows out of their cock in almost poetic tones, as if it’s the finest nectar from the god’s that a woman (or themselves), could taste. I guess because of the sheer volume of liquid guys have shooting out of themselves, a mini geyser of bodily fluid, it’s more impressive to view than a girl, unless of course she can squirt. Some beads of moisture and wet, sticky fingers don’t really compare to the shots of cum, so they impress themselves. Several have asked my thoughts on taking those supplements that are supposed to increase the volume.

I say to them, why would a woman want to have even more mess, be expected to swallow even more stuff than now? Who would want this? They seem a  little hurt at my attitude and honesty, they have it in their minds more is better. I recall talking to one guy that had some prostate surgery and how he still had an orgasm, but now there was no ejaculation, not a drop and he said his wife far preferred it, no mess, nothing to worry about swallowing, getting on the sheets, etc. Ones into the “geyser mentality” wouldn’t want to hear that, they think we want rivers of cum flowing out of them.

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Silent Callers

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Silent callers are a different breed than regular callers, they seek phone sex, but they only want a one way conversation, and there are different types of silent ones too. There’s ones that are silent because they do not have the privacy to talk, it’s not that they are shy, they just can’t chance being heard. Some of them will either at times whisper or type back into a chat box as the call is going on. Other silent callers will only call a line that is pre paid, since I can’t imagine trying to get credit card info out of them, it would be impossible. The ones without privacy will just type it into the chat box and you copy and paste it into the billing form.

Some are only wanting to sit back and be entertained. It’s difficult if you don’t know what they want, since you’re stabbing blindly in the dark to do some general sex scenario of what you think they might like. Others will email beforehand and tell you what they want. I must say it’s a lot easier if they are typing to you as you talk to give you direction, they are in a way more challenging since it’s a one woman show and you have no verbal exchange at all. Some girls will not do these types of calls since they find them creepy or difficult. I laughed once when a girl had written in a forum how she had a silent caller and all she could hear was creepy church music playing in the background. We could all envision some pervy man of the cloth jerking off in one hand and holding the Bible in the other while sitting in a  church pew and asking the Lord’s forgiveness for his wicked, wicked ways.

I recall one caller that was over 4 hours long, and I bet he didn’t say 10 sentences the entire time. I talked about everything from childhood vacations to the raccoons in the attic to try and keep him entertained, it was one of the hardest calls I ever did, but he stayed on that long so I figured he was entertained somewhat to do so. You’d think phone sex would be a strange choice of a hobby for ones that were shy, but you do your best to entertain the ones that call. You never know what’s going on on their end of the phone.

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Sex With The Handicapped

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I saw a post in a dating site forum the other day about a woman that had gotten a message from a handicapped man in a wheelchair and she was asking others what they would do, if they’d go out with a handicapped person like that. Others were responding, that some guys in wheelchairs have use of their cocks, just not their legs, it depends I guess. Others are only able to perform oral.

Oh it was quite the post. Personally I couldn’t do it, I’m too selfish, too much about me to have someone’s disability always be taking the stage like this and what they could or couldn’t physically do because of it. I’d think it too difficult a situation to be embroiled in. Life is hard enough with two able bodied people, let alone when one has issues like this. Sex for some people, for many, is a major part of their relationship, and if you take this element for the most part off the table, there isn’t a reason for some to be in a relationship at all.

I’ve read of situations like this where cuckold plays a part in it too, since they cannot personally satisfy the female partner, they like to watch someone else that can. Isn’t it interesting that some guys like to see their women with other guys, it’s very popular as far as phone sex call topics go anyway, yet I cannot imagine a woman out there that wants to see her guy with another woman, I guess we are just too jealous for that. I guess you just have to see if you can live with their disability and go from there.

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