Mutual masturbation can be a lot of fun, it doesn’t always have to lead to sex. It can be a good start a potential sexual relationship. You really shouldn’t sleep around and treat sex like a sport. Many do though. Others like to take the time to know someone and starting slowly, like exploring one another with your hands, is a perfectly fine way to get beyond the kissing stage, yet stop short of fucking. Once you have that orgasm, you won’t care too much if it came from a hand rather than being nestled deep within a vagina.
Teasing, anticipation, both can be wonderful things. Lots of times honestly the anticipation of something can be more exciting than the event once it happens. Most people masturbate, most people reading this not only masturbate but are engaging in phone sex or are at least thinking of doing so if they haven’t already. Many times the person on the other end of the phone will be masturbating as well, or they might just be helping you along and making your experience as hot as possible. It really depends on the person you’re speaking to. Either way can be just fine.
Think back to your teen years when you likely mutually masturbated with a few people you didn’t actually go a lot further with. It can still be hot and exciting, and phone sex is a wonderful and natural extension of mutual masturbation. You don’t know the person on the other end of the phone though, and that can be exciting. Using your imagination and fantasizing about what it would really be like to fuck one another. Using your own hands to pleasure yourself or another person is one of the most simple and sexy acts. No worries of disease or pregnancy, just some stroking fun for you both.